Brilliant post Barney (especially the story of the boats) and resonated a bit. To this day people look at me oddly when they see me writing, telling me I'm writing upside down. Reason was like you I was forced to use a fountain pen as a left hander and got a constant rollicking for smudging everything, which as a left hander you can't help. So ended up with a unique style of writing that I'm stuck with ![]()
I wasn't designed or receptive to academic style teaching, partly lazy, and partly it was very obvious that my destiny wasn't going to be University.
Back to the OP, I think a lot of us were far from angels (though not as bad as Barney!) and I think it's hard to saddle someone with a stupid mistake they made as a spirited youth. So I'm all for a clean slate and give someone a break. In my case it prob took about another 10 years before I grew up ![]()
It's interesting though, with our military a fraction of the size of what it was in the 1970's and 80's, a natural avenue for spirited youngsters has now gone, with nothing really to replace it.

